There’s nothing wrong with being an introvert. I know many fabulous ones. I’m still one, and always will be. But a few years ago I decided I wanted to become a master communicator. Someone who could articulate any concept to any audience in a way that educates, entertains, and inspires. An introvert who runs his mouth for a living. Go figure.
To achieve that goal, I could no longer be as much of an introvert as I was. My goal had changed, and I had to change with it. So I began working to acquire extroverted tendencies. Yes, I said working. It is absolutely hard work, as is making any significant life change. But it’s an investment that will pay off if you stick with it.
I read half a dozen books on communication skills. I took a certificate course at DePaul University. I watched hours and hours of TED talks and YouTube videos of inspiring speakers. I took a tree or two’s worth of notes. I put myself out into the world more. I spoke up in meetings. I requested presentation opportunities. I attended over a hundred networking events. I started my own monthly event series. I chatted with people in line at Starbucks. And I even made eye contact with other passengers on the train (gasp!).
The changes in my life have been dramatic. I now have more friends than ever. Not just contacts, but friends. People I cherish and regularly share jokes and ideas with. I feel closer with my family. I have relationships with many organizations doing some powerful and commendable things to support entrepreneurship. I get to meet and work with super smart people of all backgrounds who just need a little help sharing their expertise with the world. I can now speak in front of a hundred or more people without wetting my underpants, and get invited to do so. I smile more.
But the journey isn’t over. In fact, it’s only just begun.
If you tend to be strongly introverted, take a chance and try putting yourself out into the world more. You never know what amazing things might happen for you.